Though it might sound odd, my gender identity is very connected to me being a lesbian. I experience my gender roughly like this; my only link to womanhood is love for women. I just don’t feel like a woman myself.
If I had to put labels on myself, they would be: non-binary lesbian. I really dislike the Czech translation for the word lesbian; it’s too harsh and reminds me of porn for men too much. For me, being non-binary means that I don’t feel like a woman or a man but I still have a connection to womanhood.
English is my safe space; it has the gender-neutral pronoun „they“, which I’d say is nowadays used in other spaces than LGBT ones too. My international friends use that pronoun for me when they’re not using my gender-neutral name.